According to Clarissa Pinkola Estes

in her book, Women Who Run With the Wolves, if I just keep doing my work it will fulfill me in many ways, including economic. And I'm going to need a better economic situation because the man who promised to love me failed to say his promise was conditional. And, obviously therefore, he failed to tell me what those conditions are and in fact told me he loved those qualities in me. Oh well, you can never believe what a man says.