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I rolled another Bugler cigarette

and poured another tumbler of Mr. Boston‘s triple distilled.

“I don’t know how to do this, I never said I know how to do this. I’m just trying so can’t you just trust me for a little while? Can‘t I just have some time to figure it out?” I asked Myself.

She stared at me.

I pointed her to the cellar door.

"Where do you keep the mop?"

asked my 20-year-old daughter. She lives with me and I live with Jacob now.

"I don’t keep a mop," I said.

She stared at me.

"But Jacob does."

I pointed her to the cellar door where Jacob keeps his mop.

Why do I want to be alone so much?

My dear sweet partner wanted to take me out to lunch but I am on vacation and just want to soak up all this time by myself. Then he said he'd come home instead and I said I didn't want to make lunch either. Now I feel guilty.

Q: I find that I’m resisting making new girlfriends

I know I really want a man in my life right now (and all my actions show it: I work out hard and try to keep up my best appearances, flirt with men everywhere and always have that as an agenda) but why am I resisting making new GFs? I am sometimes annoyed by women who want to be friends with me. It's not like I have any friends. Why? Is it something subconscious?

A: We often resist relationships that we’ve found painful in the past. It could be that you’ve been hurt by significant women but have blocked it out, or didn’t even notice things that were going wrong--but hurt you nonetheless.

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Q: Why Can't I Find a Man?

I've been single for almost 4 years now and can't seem to find a man. I'm not a model but I'm attractive, stylish, hard working, ambitious, talented, interesting person. I go out on dates and the guys seem to want one thing or they bore me out of my mind. I just don't get it! I'm tired of being single.

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If you really are tired of being single, you need to recognize that and think about it when these men bore you out of your mind. Are you giving them enough time to show you who they are?